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Mothering Magazine Sponsored Chat with Cynthia Good Mojab, MS, IBCLC, RLC, CATSM is a clinical counselor, international board certified lactation consultant, author, researcher, and speaker. Through her private practice, LifeCircle Counseling and Consulting (LLC) she offers a blend of psychological and lactation services to women and health care providers, in person and by phone.

This chat's topic: Coping with the challenges of mothering a child born with a congenital disorder or experiencing chronic health issues.

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9/28/06

9 mamas in attendance

All Mothering Sponsored chats with Cynthia:
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12:07:10 Webmama_Tina so cynthia, it looks like just you and me for the moment
12:07:17 Cynthia_Good_Mojab So, how are you?
12:07:23 Webmama_Tina good, you? :)
12:07:42 Webmama_Tina for chronic disorders and such, what kinds of things were you thinking about?
12:07:54 Webmama_Tina i don't have any children with anything other than recently diagnosed eczema
12:07:55 Webmama_Tina lol
12:08:13 Webmama_Tina and unless you count moodiness as a chronic disorder of my nearly 6yr old, LOL!
12:09:15 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Congenital disorders and chronic health issues is a very broad topic. When children are born with a health or developmental issue, it's labeled congenital" (present from birth)."
12:09:34 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Chronic health issues can result from congenital disorders or develop after birth.
12:10:21 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Congenital disorders include Down's syndrome, cleft lip and palate, hearing impairment from birth, club foot, etc.
12:10:57 Webmama_Tina oh i see
12:11:37 Webmama_Tina yeah i don't have anything like that here...well my dd had a hemangioma at birth...but its mostly gone now...not ever really been an issue either
12:11:52 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Chronic health issues can develop after an accident or through exposure to environmental toxins (e.g., lead, mercury). Allergies certainly fall in the category of chronic health issues, so eczema (which is often related to allergies) would count.
12:12:13 Webmama_Tina oh i see...yeah i am trying to figure out if he really does have eczema...
12:12:17 Cynthia_Good_Mojab So would the Asperberger spectrum of disorders, including autism.
12:12:20 Webmama_Tina i'm not entirely convinced
12:12:35 Webmama_Tina its not all dry and scaley
12:12:40 Webmama_Tina more like a rash
12:14:02 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Skin problems can be really hard to figure out. And, mothers who are coping with children's allergies can find the process of figuring out how to live life without eating dairy, wheat, corn, ....whatever the offending food is...can need support.
12:14:44 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Tina, do we have any Boards over on Mothering that address these kinds of issues? I wonder if we can rustle up anyone who might be interested in talking about this....
12:15:23 Webmama_Tina hm, dunno
12:15:29 Webmama_Tina i don't post on mothering very often
12:15:51 Webmama_Tina yeah i'm being told by friends that i should try to eliminate dairy from my diet...that is SOOOO hard!
12:16:01 Webmama_Tina not to hard to take it out of his, cuz he doesn't eat a whole lot yet
12:16:05 Webmama_Tina mostly nursing still
12:16:10 Webmama_Tina but wow, if i can't eat cheese!
12:16:14 Webmama_Tina :(
12:20:54 Webmama_Tina i posted on amity
12:20:56 Webmama_Tina are you posting on mothering?
12:21:42 Cynthia_Good_Mojab I just posted on Mothering
12:21:57 Webmama_Tina okey dokey
12:22:04 Webmama_Tina LC22 you back yet?
12:22:11 Webmama_Tina guess not
12:22:14 Webmama_Tina hmmm
12:22:17 Webmama_Tina welllll....
12:22:18 Webmama_Tina LOL
12:22:24 Webmama_Tina give it some time to see if anyone shows i guess
12:22:39 Webmama_Tina so you're area of expertise is all things children and babies, eh?
12:22:40 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Well, Tina, an option is also to conduct this like an interview--that way there's a transcript on this topic.
12:23:43 Webmama_Tina that's true
12:23:46 Webmama_Tina :)
12:23:52 mybabyandmore hello sorry I'm late
12:23:56 mybabyandmore nap time
12:24:11 Webmama_Tina hiya!
12:24:14 Webmama_Tina i'm glad you made it!
12:24:16 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Welcome!
12:24:35 Webmama_Tina mybabyandmore do you have a child with congenital disorder or chronic health problems?
12:25:35 mybabyandmore no
12:25:58 mybabyandmore actually ractive airway disease
12:26:22 Cynthia_Good_Mojab What kind of symptoms does your child have?
12:26:33 mybabyandmore wheezing coughing
12:26:52 mybabyandmore every time they get cold it goes right to their chest
12:26:56 mybabyandmore colds
12:27:48 Cynthia_Good_Mojab How much of your time are you spending trying to keep him/her from getting those colds? I bet that's tough to accomplish!
12:27:57 Webmama_Tina welcome thefragile7393
12:28:18 thefragile7393 Thank you :-)
12:28:33 Webmama_Tina fragile...do you have a child with health issues?
12:28:57 mybabyandmore i honestly don't
12:29:05 mybabyandmore i breastfeed my 19 month old
12:29:20 mybabyandmore my 3 yr old has seemed to grow out of it
12:29:26 mybabyandmore mostly
12:30:11 thefragile7393 honestly no....I'm just here learning and listening
12:30:19 Cynthia_Good_Mojab So you've been mothering two children with reactive airway disease...although one seems to be doing better now.
12:30:23 thefragile7393 he's a healthy little dude in spite of me
12:30:34 mybabyandmore y
12:30:47 mybabyandmore they both get nebulizers prn
12:30:59 mybabyandmore the baby more often
12:31:27 mybabyandmore with albuterol
12:31:49 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Do you feel like an old pro" at this point, taking things in stride, or is it a daily challenge, or a little of both or ??"
12:32:47 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Thanks for joining us to listen in, the fragile7393. Do you have friends/family coping with parenting children with congenital disorders or chronic health issues?
12:33:01 mybabyandmore when she is sick i feel challenged. I had asthma as a kid and I hear her and know how horrible it feels it breaks my heart
12:33:35 Cynthia_Good_Mojab You can really empathize with how hard breathing difficulties can be. They can be really frightening since breathing is so important...
12:33:38 mybabyandmore it hurt me to hear her trying tobreathe
12:33:40 thefragile7393 mmm....well my SIL has a son born with severe Spina Bifida.....and of course the hospital screwed up her breastfeeding by giving pacis and bottles...so she's exclusively pumping for him
12:34:25 thefragile7393 I've tried to help her on that aspect....she's trying to bf more...it's been an uphill battle
12:35:20 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Tina, now that we have a few Chat participants, do you want to start taking questions?
12:35:25 mybabyandmore WOW that is admirable though thefragile7393 expumping takes dedication
12:36:52 thefragile7393 I dunno if she throws in formula here and there.....I don't talk get to talk with her much since she usually prefers to talk with my husband, her brother
12:37:07 thefragile7393 but the last I heard she was doing the exclusive pumping thing.....
12:37:21 thefragile7393 she dosn't work so she has the time" so to speak, even with an older daughter"
12:37:49 Cynthia_Good_Mojab I just came back after being disconnected from the Chat. I'm not sure what I missed...I was only gone a moment, but one of my responses wasn't sent, I think.
12:38:32 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Tina, are you there?
12:39:36 Cynthia_Good_Mojab I think Tina is busy mothering at the moment!
12:40:21 Webmama_Tina sorry!
12:40:23 Webmama_Tina nak'n
12:40:24 Cynthia_Good_Mojab No problem!
12:40:33 Webmama_Tina don't know what i pushed
12:40:44 Webmama_Tina i logged myself out somehow
12:40:52 Webmama_Tina lol
12:41:00 Cynthia_Good_Mojab I pushed send" earlier and was disconnected. So, it might be a glitch with the system, not you!"
12:41:14 Webmama_Tina maybe
12:41:36 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Does anyone have a question about today's topic of coping with the challenges of mothering children born with a congenital disorder or experiencing chronic health issues?
12:42:23 Cynthia_Good_Mojab Or a comment? Or wisdom to share?
12:43:48 Cynthia_Good_Mojab While I see if anyone has an answer to that question, I want to share a few resources....
12:44:20 Webmama_Tina i wonder if there might be another topic that the mamas might want to discuss?
12:44:36 Cynthia_Good_Mojab I'm open!
12:44:56 Webmama_Tina resources are good..share away!
12:45:09 Webmama_Tina i've got a squirming nursing baby on my hands here...trying to keep him happy
12:47:32 Cynthia_Good_Mojab I wanted to copy and paste, Tina. Is that possible?
12:47:54 Webmama_Tina yes
12:48:02 Webmama_Tina you have to click the copy content button first
12:48:08 Webmama_Tina see the button with 2 pieces of paper?
12:48:29 Webmama_Tina oh wait
12:48:36 Webmama_Tina do you mean you want to copy stuff from elsewhere?
12:48:42 Cynthia_Good_Mojab I wanted to copy a url from another place and paste it into the text editor here.
12:48:43 Webmama_Tina cuz that's if you want to copy stuff in the chat
12:48:52 Webmama_Tina oh yes, just use CTRL V
12:48:55 Webmama_Tina that will paste it
12:49:38 Webmama_Tina L  C to copy