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Signing With Babies Chat #30, with Sarah Bingham of WeeHands
( www.weehands.com )
4/28/05

5 mamas in attendance

20:05:20 WeeHands HI THERE WELCOME TO THE SIGNING WITH BABY CHAT!  I'M YOUR HOST SARA FROM WEEHANDS!
20:05:26 WeeHands Hi Vonnie!
20:05:32 Vonnie hey sara!
20:05:44 Vonnie seems quiet tonight
20:05:51 onthebrink hi
20:06:07 WeeHands it does seem quiet.  i'm going to email the yahoo! groups i'm on
20:06:16 Vonnie np
20:06:22 Vonnie alexandleah that one?
20:09:14 WeeHands yes, that's one of them!
20:09:31 Vonnie lol
20:09:37 Vonnie i go there often and just got your email
20:09:42 Vonnie you go during wed chats?
20:09:43 WeeHands hee hee!
20:10:36 WeeHands sometimes if my kiddies let me. my dh has a guitar class wed nites so i don't often have time to get to the computer then
20:10:42 WeeHands hi tricia!
20:10:49 tricia_sign_instrr Hi Vonnie & Sara,
20:10:58 WeeHands how are things in calgary tricia?
20:11:32 tricia_sign_instrr Weel, snow the last two days my ds's soccer game cancelled tonight. A balmy +2 Celcius!
20:11:56 WeeHands oh man!
20:11:58 Vonnie sorry!
20:12:03 Vonnie im sooo tired to think
20:12:13 WeeHands why what's up vonnie?
20:12:15 Vonnie ah that explains weehands
20:12:24 tricia_sign_instrr what time is it in your time zone, vonnie?
20:12:29 Vonnie im just feeling so tired with no energy and my time management is at it worse lol
20:13:03 Vonnie arizona so NOW it is pacific tho i have no ocean lol
20:13:17 Vonnie wintertime its mst and summertime pst
20:13:27 WeeHands what time is it there now?  is arizona in the same time zone as calgary
20:13:43 Vonnie 6 13
20:13:49 WeeHands i'd love to be in arizona now!
20:14:04 Vonnie c'mon over!
20:14:42 tricia_sign_instrr vonnie is one hour earlier than Calgary!
20:14:57 tricia_sign_instrr Okay, are you guys too tired to help me with some ASL signs?
20:15:16 WeeHands no not at all!
20:15:35 WeeHands what signs are you looking for? although I think vonnie will be of more help!
20:16:12 tricia_sign_instrr HOw do you tell your students to sign truck" (I assume you don't tell them to sign "car" for "truck")  We have lots of truck drivers in Cow Town!! :)"
20:17:39 Vonnie lol tricia
20:17:45 WeeHands i'm surprise the ASL browswer doesn't have it!
20:17:48 Vonnie i can help
20:17:51 WeeHands i just looked it doesn't
20:17:55 Vonnie lol weehands
20:18:00 WeeHands hi there yatah!
20:18:06 yatah hi
20:18:11 WeeHands how would you sign it vonnie?  i have seen it two ways
20:18:36 Vonnie lol
20:18:42 Vonnie me too -
20:18:49 Vonnie truck as in T instead of car
20:18:52 Vonnie another one is
20:19:03 Vonnie spelling then signing a BIG" car"
20:19:46 tricia_sign_instrr go over this again
20:20:06 tricia_sign_instrr sign car sign but with both fists holding a t" letter?"
20:20:19 Vonnie that is one
20:20:48 tricia_sign_instrr Ok and second is fingerspelling T R U C K and sign car" sign ????"
20:20:53 WeeHands i've seen T" shapes both hands, at chest level, left hand in front of right a bit, and right hand (little finger side) hits left hand's thumb side"
20:21:22 WeeHands e.g., the tractor connecting to the trailer of a big rig (i have a little boy so i know all the correct terminology!)
20:21:36 WeeHands hi there minasmom!
20:21:54 minasmom hello everyone!
20:22:18 minasmom I thought I'd drop in and introduce myself
20:22:21 tricia_sign_instrr yes, Sara that's how I've seen in truck" at Calgary School for Deaf & HOH (over I was told that wasn't really an ASL sign)"
20:22:36 minasmom I've JUST started signing with my dd [she's 12 months, almost 13 months]
20:23:23 WeeHands i've also seen it like the sign for car but with hands in t" shapes"
20:23:35 Vonnie well i learned that in my deaf school tho many younger ( i beli9eve) are changing it so there are no letters but many of us still do
20:23:45 WeeHands i should have my canadian ASL dictionary at my side on thursday evenings!
20:24:31 WeeHands my son uses that way as part of the monster truck" sign! :D"
20:24:38 minasmom Oh!  Is there an online resource to the Canadain ASL?  I never even thought about that!
20:24:38 WeeHands hi monica!
20:24:42 signingbaby Hey hey hey
20:25:00 WeeHands no there isn't an online resource for Canadian ASL - great idea though!
20:25:10 WeeHands http://commtechlab.msu.edu/sites/aslweb/browser.htm
20:25:14 WeeHands is what I use alot
20:25:24 WeeHands where are you from minasmom?
20:25:32 tricia_sign_instrr so vonnie, you are saying truck used to be fingerspelled  and added a big car" sign, but the younger deaf are starting to drop the fingerspelling part? am I understanding you correctly??"
20:25:39 minasmom thanks, I'm in Toronto
20:25:48 Vonnie that first part is NOW
20:25:55 Vonnie the fists with T" is what i grew up with"
20:26:09 Vonnie other way around
20:26:31 tricia_sign_instrr Okay you are confusing me ( on purpose  ?? ) :)
20:26:33 signingbaby Lauren just signs blue" then "car" ... her sign for Dad's truck lol"
20:26:34 WeeHands the younger deaf are now fingerspelling it?
20:26:43 WeeHands too cute  signingbaby !
20:26:48 WeeHands how old is she?
20:26:52 signingbaby 29 months
20:27:04 WeeHands my sabrina is 30 months!
20:27:20 signingbaby Since I taught her colors it's really made a huge difference, if she doesn't know what something is she will sign the color and then point
20:27:33 signingbaby She will often refer to someone by the color of their shirt or outfit
20:27:43 WeeHands i only know that because the babycenter still has us on their system and I get an email every month regarding her age!
20:27:48 minasmom I have a question, i just started with dd and I'm currently only signing 'eat'.  How often should I introduce new words?  Should I wait until she signs 'eat' back to me or just keep adding new ones?
20:28:04 WeeHands how old is dd?  minasmom
20:28:14 minasmom almost 13 months
20:28:24 WeeHands also just curious are you in a WeeHands class in TO?
20:28:29 minasmom no i'm not
20:28:37 signingbaby I would introduce a few more signs to her minasmom
20:28:46 WeeHands minasmom what are her favourite things? e.g., top 6 things?
20:29:18 minasmom books, blocks, park, cats, dogs, nursing of course [she calls it nana though]
20:29:20 WeeHands the number of signs you show her is really up to you and what you're comfort level is?
20:29:21 tricia_sign_instrr I my opinion - the more signs you use in the correct context - the faster she'll catch on! Think of how we speak to our kids!
20:29:39 WeeHands we all talk very fast and use lots of words.
20:29:48 minasmom that makes sense.  I was just afraid of overloading her with too much
20:30:10 WeeHands right tricia - so sign whatever number of words you are comfortable with.  for parents that are new to this I usually recommend about 15 signs
20:30:18 tricia_sign_instrr depends on how many signs you know minasmom? Are you learning ASL signs from a book?
20:30:29 minasmom not a book, websites only
20:30:38 signingbaby I only used one sign with Corbin and didn't introduct any new ones until he signed it back - but that was in 2000 and I didn't know anyone else who signed so I wasn't sure it would work. LOL.
20:30:53 minasmom i only know eat so far ... i'm so new at this!  lol
20:30:56 WeeHands a combination of favourite things that you've listed and other signs that happen frequently throughout the day, e.g., change, bath, up, no touch, etc.
20:31:36 WeeHands minasmom can you email me at info@weehands.com and I'll send you a sheet of the signs for the favourite things you
20:31:40 WeeHands ve listed?
20:31:55 minasmom ok, i'll make a list and look them up.  Right now she just kind of stares at me ... does it take a long time for the child to understand the connection between word and sign?
20:32:02 minasmom thank you !  I will email you
20:32:16 signingbaby It varies from child to child
20:32:48 signingbaby But with the two I've signed with, I have noticed that once they realize that signing will allow them to communicate with you, they tend to pick it up faster
20:33:13 WeeHands most babies sign back between 9 and 12 months.  once they get past using about 8-10 signs, they may start learning VERY quickly!
20:33:15 minasmom i'm sure she will like that.  it will make her life easier!
20:33:26 tricia_sign_instrr Well, at 13 months if a parent has a reportoire of 15-20 signs and uses them for 10-20 minutes a day - there is agood chance she'll catch on pretty fast- maybe ina few weeks!
20:33:51 minasmom that's great!  I really like signing with her
20:33:56 signingbaby I would agree with Tricia ... the older they are the more likely they are to learn
20:33:59 signingbaby faster
20:34:03 Vonnie wait tho
20:34:14 Vonnie just because she might not sign back does not mean she does not understand
20:34:33 Vonnie my boy was a quiet one then all of a sudden he played around with signs then stopped and laughe3d at me when i ask him to sign
20:34:50 minasmom i think she might understand Vonnie.  I'll sign eat and say eat at the same time and she'll crawl over to her chair or point at it
20:34:52 tricia_sign_instrr exactly vonnie - they may the connection pretty quickly as far as understanding the meaning of the sign!
20:35:26 signingbaby Yes, sign milk" to a nursing baby for long enough and they wiill go nuts at the sight of it!!"
20:35:27 Vonnie right
20:35:40 minasmom lol
20:35:41 Vonnie some people just get worried if they dont hear or see their kids talk
20:35:58 minasmom maybe she will stop yelling for her 'nana' then.  lol, i doubt that!
20:36:22 tricia_sign_instrr oh, yes, vonnie - it's a big myth we sign instructors are trying to break!
20:36:32 signingbaby Well nana" is better than poking your boobs in publie!"
20:36:38 signingbaby public
20:36:47 minasmom lol
20:36:55 signingbaby Lauren can sign AND say milk and she still acts inappropriate about nursing
20:37:10 minasmom oh no!  oh well, i understand the excitement
20:37:24 signingbaby LOL
20:37:36 signingbaby That's weird, I typed L O L and it made LOL
20:37:40 minasmom me too
20:37:47 signingbaby Wasn't expecting that haha
20:38:38 signingbaby Ugh Lauren just peed on the floor
20:39:01 signingbaby While saying pee and signing potty
20:39:08 signingbaby We have a long way to go ..
20:39:11 minasmom lol
20:39:44 tricia_sign_instrr lol lol
20:40:19 Vonnie im not looking forward to potty training and been putting it off
20:40:40 tricia_sign_instrr minasmom - there is great board book - has 12 pages called Teaching Your Baby How to Sign" available at public libr. Have you used that book with dd?"
20:41:24 WeeHands minasmom have a look at the brand new webpage http://www.durhambabies.com/public/minasmom.jpg
20:41:52 WeeHands some of the text is fuzzy though
20:42:08 signingbaby Hey I have one that is kind of bunged up and I can't sell, do you want it?
20:42:31 signingbaby Directed at minasmom
20:44:03 minasmom Tricia - no i haven't!  I'll look it up and order that book.
20:44:29 signingbaby minasmom I have a copy that is kind of bunged up, I can send it to you, it's basically brand new but the cover is a little bent
20:44:33 minasmom WOW!!!!  Thanks so much!!! I'm going to print this out
20:44:39 WeeHands ha, i laugh at this  signingbaby - most of my family's favourite sign board books are bunged" up with cereal and who knows what!  great memories!"
20:44:52 WeeHands i just emailed it to you as well
20:45:21 minasmom lol, most of mina's books are too!  that would be really nice of you signingbaby ... are you in canada?
20:45:29 signingbaby No, in the US
20:45:29 WeeHands we have a number of free presentations coming up at early years centres in Toronto - what area of town are you in?
20:45:36 signingbaby It's brand new but the cover is just funky
20:45:37 minasmom thank you weehands .. i really appreciate all this help
20:45:51 minasmom i'm in etobicoke, south
20:46:16 Vonnie wish you were int he chat room weehands last night
20:46:16 signingbaby You can email me your mailing address at monica@signingbaby.com
20:47:36 tricia_sign_instrr mimasmom - did you say you have an older ds that you tried signing to? was that in 2000? or am I confusing you with some one else here??
20:47:45 WeeHands why  Vonnie ?
20:48:06 signingbaby I signed with my older child starting in 2000 ... he eventually caught on and signed over 100 by the time he was done
20:48:16 minasmom no, I only have 1 dd
20:49:18 Vonnie because they were discussing BS and ST
20:49:35 Vonnie and rachel was involved - learned a bit about those things happening and the contradiction
20:50:35 tricia_sign_instrr oh, sorry about confusion signingbaby. Glad to hear you were successful. There weren't many parents signing to their babies in 2000!
20:51:14 signingbaby I know, that's why I got involved in the whole baby signing movement
20:51:35 WeeHands monica our kids are the exact same age - way too weird!
20:51:51 tricia_sign_instrr my story about signing with my babies started in 1992 when my first-born, dd was 8 months old & then dd signed to her younger baby brother when he was born in 1994
20:52:02 minasmom wow!  signingbaby i was just looking at your site and I realized that Mina has been doing some VERY similar to the sign for milk.  She uses it when she wants to sleep.  wow, that's amazing.
20:52:03 signingbaby That is biezrre
20:52:09 signingbaby Jeez BIZARRE
20:52:37 minasmom seriously, i was wondering what she was doing.
20:52:41 minasmom amazing
20:52:47 signingbaby That's awesome
20:53:10 minasmom well, i'm more inspired then i was before to take on signing with her.
20:53:25 tricia_sign_instrr see, mimasmom - you have to watch your dd for her attempts at sign! They are there. Parents tend to doubt themselves that their babies are trying to communicate with signs.
20:53:45 WeeHands too great sites are http://www.signingbaby.com/ and http://www.signingstore.ca
20:53:56 WeeHands just wanted to get those in the transcripts! :)
20:54:30 signingbaby Thanks Sara for that
20:54:36 WeeHands that's true Tricia.  our babies are incredibly smart creatures with so much personality!
20:54:46 WeeHands di nada monica!
20:54:46 tricia_sign_instrr thanks Sara. Mimasmom, if you are not able to take a sign class, Signing Time videos are fantastic for teaching toddlers basic sign language.
20:54:52 signingbaby I think the best part of my site is the baby pictures ... it's so motivating to see real babies signing
20:55:18 signingbaby It took me about a week to realize that Corbin was signing milk" to me ... I thought he was just waving ... oops!"
20:55:25 WeeHands part of the reason my company name is WeeHands (cuz I'm 5 foot 10 and my hands are not wee!)
20:55:52 Vonnie lol
20:55:53 minasmom I've ordered baby signs from the library to see if we like it before i buy it.
20:55:56 WeeHands most babies will make the correct movement regarding a sign, use the correct body space but the handshape will be off
20:56:00 Vonnie wait!
20:56:06 Vonnie Baby Signs is the title?
20:56:14 minasmom um, i think so
20:56:22 WeeHands really good books are Sign with your Baby" by Joseph Garcia"
20:56:25 minasmom i can check, its on the waiting list
20:56:29 Vonnie personally I wouldn't recommend that
20:56:35 signingbaby That's what I used, Sign with your Baby by JG
20:56:38 WeeHands and Baby Sign Language Basics" by Monta Briant"
20:56:46 minasmom no?  why not?
20:56:47 Vonnie Sign with Your Baby - i haven't seenbut was told its good
20:56:53 Vonnie second one i dont know?
20:56:53 WeeHands did I get that title right Monica for Monta's book
20:57:07 signingbaby Yes you did, it's a small book but very good for its size
20:57:12 Vonnie well you know BABY" signs"
20:57:16 WeeHands The two books I suggested use American Sign Language as do the Signing Time videos
20:57:23 Vonnie they are based on babies and their comfort" not the actual ASL"
20:57:45 signingbaby I recommend ASL too
20:57:50 Vonnie now they are saying it's BASED on not actually ASL - admitting a little then putting in 80% (but who would know which is true)
20:57:58 signingbaby Although not officially" but as a parent"
20:58:07 WeeHands they do not use made up signs - there is no need to simplify ASL signs for babies.
20:58:16 minasmom oh, so it wouldn't be 100% compatable everywhere then
20:58:20 signingbaby Right! Exactly
20:58:22 Vonnie like you know Spanish Signs" would be Spanish signs ok now "Baby Signs"????? its the little people's language"
20:58:31 Vonnie no it wouldn't and I know!
20:58:43 minasmom i see!  ok so i'lll look up signing time then
20:58:44 Vonnie Discovery Toys where I used to be a consultant with tried to lie to me about that
20:58:45 WeeHands When you look at signs broken down into 1) body space 2) movement and 3) handshape you can learn to recognize the approximations babies may make
20:58:58 Vonnie then told the other person (hearing) the truth and i got that letter but - point is that
20:59:00 signingbaby Although ASL does vary from region to region but overall it's way more  consistent
20:59:07 Vonnie it's a sticky situation going on but I wouldn't recommend it
20:59:14 Vonnie no ASL is the same linguistically!
20:59:31 signingbaby But the signs do vary, I'm not talking about syntax
20:59:32 Vonnie but the signs itse'f does vary tho if created" by the deaf community, we are more than happy to flexible - usually"
20:59:35 WeeHands i prefer ASL because 1) it's a beautiful language and I want my family to learn more of it, past babyhood
20:59:39 Vonnie ok
20:59:54 signingbaby I should have clarified that
20:59:58 signingbaby I have a deaf cousin
21:00:14 WeeHands 2) it uses the hands, not the mouth for some signs (using the mouth for made up signs is counter productive to speech)
21:00:26 Vonnie plus Baby SIgns is for hearing people they said nothing to do with the deaf people
21:00:26 signingbaby Now that Lauren has been diagnosed with a severe speech delay, I'm very happy she's learning ASL
21:00:46 Vonnie that's good
21:00:52 Vonnie where are you signing baby?
21:00:57 signingbaby NW Missouri
21:01:10 signingbaby She's about 18 months behind on speech
21:01:12 WeeHands 3) if we, the hearing, are going to borrow from the language of the Deaf we have to use it respectfully and now mess with it
21:01:35 WeeHands e.g., the BS sign for apple" is actually the ASL sign for, pardon me, "menstruate""
21:02:01 WeeHands I think we have a huge part of the continent covered tonight!
21:02:10 Vonnie ah
21:02:46 Vonnie yea and i was told cereal" looks similar to a@#hole"
21:02:48 Vonnie lol
21:02:48 tricia_sign_instrr so minismom, are you overwhelmed with all our advice??
21:02:54 Vonnie no we dont want our kids signing like that
21:02:56 WeeHands oh no!
21:02:56 signingbaby And she's really amazing and taking on aspects of ASL that I have not taught her, for example she's using a lot of facial expressions to get her point across
21:02:58 minasmom lol, nope
21:03:04 Vonnie and more but i forgot what
21:03:09 tricia_sign_instrr lol vonnie - good one!
21:03:12 signingbaby What is the Baby Sign for apple???
21:03:38 signingbaby Can you describe it so I never accidentally do it
21:03:42 WeeHands tapping the A" fist at the cheek"
21:04:09 WeeHands you can use it in about 12-13 years!
21:04:09 signingbaby Ahhh, thanks
21:04:20 signingbaby No kidding, I don't even want to think about that
21:04:24 signingbaby lol
21:06:32 WeeHands THANKS FOR JOINING THE SIGNING BABIES CHAT!  SEE YOU ALL NEXT WEEK!  SARA BINGHAM FROM WEEHANDS

 

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