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Breastfeeding Is Normal presents: A Breastfeeding Advocacy Chat #17
10/19/05

24 mamas in attendance

11:04:30 Mod_ariana that'd be 3 under 5~
11:04:35 lifeisstatic yes
11:04:38 Mod_ariana Host_Housepoet Really?
11:05:06 galadriel2006 hello everyone!
11:05:10 summermommy2004 hello
11:05:13 Mod_ariana Some times I think dh and I are the most cautious condom users on the planet!
11:05:22 Mod_ariana galadriel2006 HI!
11:05:27 Mod_ariana summermommy2004 Hi to you too!
11:05:33 summermommy2004 :-)
11:05:42 mwalton is today a formal one then?  what's on the agenda?
11:05:55 galadriel2006 i can't stay for long, but i'm here for at least about 15 minutes
11:06:00 itsajenism hi
11:06:15 galadriel2006 got class in under an hour
11:06:16 summermommy2004 I only have a few minutes but I thought I'd come before I have to go home to the babe  :)
11:06:24 galadriel2006 hehe
11:06:37 Mod_ariana mwalton no, it's a casual chat
11:06:52 summermommy2004 Just finished class here... had a Spanish quiz and got done a few minutes early so I thought I'd check LJ while I was otherwise unoccupied. hehe
11:06:52 mwalton heh oh ok...i'm a little slow on the uptake today ;)
11:07:15 Mod_ariana Housepoet and I have both been so so busy lately we haven't had time to come up with formal agendas
11:08:09 Mod_ariana mwalton how old is your baby?
11:08:14 galadriel2006 hehe
11:08:21 mwalton 5 months...although with his sleep pattern you'd think 3 weeks
11:08:22 galadriel2006 i understand not having time
11:08:40 Mod_ariana I feel like you've been around longer than that
11:08:46 mwalton we've been reading the no cry sleep solution and implementing it..but apparently since he can't read he doesn't agree with the techniques ;)
11:08:47 Mod_ariana I must be counting pregnancy time
11:08:55 itsajenism haha
11:09:12 Mod_ariana You know, I understand setting the stage for sleep and all that
11:09:28 Mod_ariana but I am a firm believer that kids will sleep when they're ready
11:10:00 Mod_ariana I never did any type of sleep training either routines or CIO or anything like that with my kids and William is 5 and (most of the time) falls asleep just fine
11:10:08 summermommy2004 Me too... my 16 month old still doesn't sleep through the night. I think I will have a heart attack the night she does. lol
11:10:16 Mod_ariana James is almost 2 1/2 and he nurses to sleep most nights but it works really well for us
11:10:38 Mod_ariana summermommy2004 both my kids started sleeping through the night right about 2
11:10:41 mwalton i'd settle for him sleeping say 3 hours at a block
11:10:54 Mod_ariana do you co-sleep?
11:10:56 galadriel2006 wow, i think i'd go crzay with that
11:10:56 mwalton yep
11:10:58 itsajenism that's the reason i didn't finish reading the NCSS... i like nursing ds to sleep at night
11:11:14 summermommy2004 well... she starts out in her crib most nights but she always ends up back with me after 3 or 4 hours.
11:11:16 itsajenism i don't see a reason to change something that works well
11:11:36 mwalton cosleeping is the only reason i haven't actually been committed to an insane assylum yet (since connor doesn't believe in naps either ;)
11:11:38 galadriel2006 we coslept with edmund until he was firmly sleeping the  night
11:11:56 galadriel2006 then he moved to a crib, which was a pretty painless process
11:12:01 mwalton well that's not true..he takes 20 min naps about 10 am
11:12:12 Mod_ariana He sounds like my first son
11:12:28 Mod_ariana He needs so much less sleep than the average baby/person
11:12:41 Mod_ariana It drives me crazy as I need MORE sleep than the average
11:13:13 mwalton see i don't need a ton..but i realized yesterday that what I consider an EXCELLENT night is one where he only wakes up 4-5 times and i get 5 hours of sleep
11:13:23 Host_Housepoet mwalton
11:13:29 Host_Housepoet how old is your son Connor?
11:13:33 mwalton 5 months
11:13:35 summermommy2004 unfortunately i gotta hit the road already ladies... time to go get the little boober :) have a great chat!!
11:13:37 Host_Housepoet and no naps?
11:13:39 Host_Housepoet wow
11:13:43 Mod_ariana summermommy2004 Bye!
11:13:47 Host_Housepoet my Aiden doesn't nap ususally and he's two!
11:13:56 Nomentionofme hi everyone
11:14:01 Mod_ariana Nomentionofme Hello!
11:14:06 lifeisstatic How old were your kids when they started sleeping in their own bed?
11:14:08 ilovezoeystar Hey mammas!
11:14:16 mwalton it's gotten better...now i usually get 2 20 min naps a day out of him (thanks to the ncss)
11:14:33 Mod_ariana William was 3 when he started sleeping on his own semi-consistently (sp?)
11:14:37 Host_Housepoet morning  ilovezoeystar
11:15:11 Mod_ariana but that was still in our room
11:16:10 Nomentionofme i went to my LLL meeting last week and i was so proud of one of the mothers.... right after Katrina hit she nursed 3 babies other than her own
11:16:20 Mod_ariana Now he sleeps on his own in his own room most of the time
11:16:28 Nomentionofme because of the lack of formula and clean water..
11:16:29 mwalton wow...good for her
11:16:37 galadriel2006 wow... that's awesome!
11:16:40 Mod_ariana Nomentionofme oh, that's so beautiful
11:16:59 mwalton hope she's not suffering from oversupply now!
11:17:07 Nomentionofme she had been struggeling with supply issues... not anymore :)
11:17:21 galadriel2006 i guess not!
11:17:27 mwalton lol yeah that's one way to up the supply ;)
11:17:37 ilovezoeystar wow, thats amazing
11:18:04 Mod_ariana Wow I wonder how much *time* she spent nursing!
11:18:15 Nomentionofme i believe a lot of mothers around here will think twice about breastfeeding now...
11:18:16 Mod_ariana 4 babies... that's a lot
11:18:17 ilovezoeystar i thought about how lucky i'd be if I lived there...having full nurishment for my baby...
11:19:45 galadriel2006 it must be so terrible to not be able to feed your baby
11:19:47 Nomentionofme well i evacuated but i kept thinking when i would see the news footage wow they would be okay if they would have just breastfed their babies....
11:20:05 galadriel2006 just take things like the availability of formula for granted
11:20:19 Mod_ariana It's really sad.
11:20:29 ilovezoeystar it so is
11:20:38 Mod_ariana And it's hard to talk about it because some people are so sensetive
11:20:49 galadriel2006 especially since it's so danged unnecessary
11:21:10 ilovezoeystar i know, it makes me a little mad...
11:21:16 Nomentionofme i mean i am in mississippi on the gulfcoast and many places here the water is still not safe
11:22:03 lifeisstatic Well ladys I gtg. I have to get ready for my wic appointment
11:22:17 Mod_ariana lifeisstatic see you soon.  Let us know what happens with the next test!!!!
11:22:19 Nomentionofme have a good day
11:22:24 mwalton take care..hope you figure things out with the test
11:22:38 lifeisstatic will do *)
11:24:36 Janice Nomentionofme - do you think the mom from Katrina who nursed other babies, would be interested in being interview by a reporter, and sharing her story?  This needs to be documented
11:24:53 Janice She should at least write it up for the LLL magazine.
11:24:57 galadriel2006 i agree
11:25:31 Nomentionofme i am not sure i will talk to her soon and find out.... i think she does need to share the story though...
11:25:38 Janice I'm sure I could find a reporter to interview her, or even a bfing researcher who would write up the case for the medical journals
11:26:11 galadriel2006 that would be a pretty clear witness that women are made to be able to nurse at least one baby
11:26:18 Janice I know that sometimes researchers will write up an unusual case like this and submit it to the journals and get it documented
11:26:49 Nomentionofme most definately she is military so i will try to get in tough with her this afternoon...
11:27:04 galadriel2006 military or militant?
11:27:44 Nomentionofme she is a seabee in the navy so it has been hard to get in tough with her with all this post storm stuff
11:27:51 Nomentionofme touch
11:28:14 galadriel2006 gotcha
11:28:38 Nomentionofme are you on livejournal also... once i talk to her i couldpost there to get in touch with you?
11:28:51 Janice if she agrees. please email me at momsformilk@sasktel.net
11:28:54 Mod_ariana Nomentionofme is this your LJ name or is it different?
11:29:10 Janice I've never been on livejournal, I should try it
11:29:21 galadriel2006 yes