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Breastfeeding Is Normal presents: A Breastfeeding Advocacy Chat #23
11/30
/05

22 mamas in attendance

12:03:47 Mod_ariana I have a question to put to you all
12:03:53 galadriel2006 go for it
12:04:02 Mod_ariana What do you tell your children when they see formula and/or bottles?
12:04:11 Host_Housepoet LLLI Responds to AAP Policy Statement on Sudden Infant Death Syndrome
12:04:21 Host_Housepoet Schaumburg, IL (October 2005) La Leche League International (LLLI) is concerned about the October 10, 2005 policy statement on Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) issued by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) Task Force on SIDS. The recommendations about pacifiers and cosleeping in the statement reflect a lack of basic understanding about breastfeeding management.
12:04:27 Host_Housepoet Pacifiers, which are recommended in this policy statement, are artificial substitutes for what the breast does naturally. Breastfed babies often nurse to sleep for naps and bedtime. The recommended pacifier usage could cause a reduction in milk supply due to reduced stimulation of the breasts and may affect breastfeeding duration.    LLLI recognizes that safe cosleeping facilitates breastfeeding. One important way cosleeping can help a mother’s milk supply is by encouraging regular and frequent feeding. Well-known research on safe cosleeping practices by Dr. James McKenna, Director of the Mother-Baby Behavioral Sleep Laboratory at the University of Notre Dame was disregarded by the task force.
12:04:32 Host_Housepoet Also, the obvious omission of input by the AAP’s Section on Breastfeeding may account for the fact that breastfeeding management issues were not taken into consideration. Dr. Nancy Wight, President of the Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine, comments that this statement “represents a truly astounding triumph of ethnocentric assumptions over common sense and medical research.” Dr. Wight also states, “There are many physician members of the AAP who do not agree with these recommendations.”
12:04:37 Host_Housepoet Although the authors do state that breastfeeding is beneficial and should be promoted, their recommendations about pacifier use and cosleeping could have a negative impact on a mother’s efforts to breastfeed. The statement causes confusion for parents and falls seriously short of being a useful and comprehensive policy.
12:05:53 Host_Housepoet It's a lot to read but a good read
12:05:58 galadriel2006 i tell him that some babies drink from bottles, but that nursies are a baby's favorite way to eat
12:06:26 aceboo hello
12:06:33 galadriel2006 hello!
12:06:37 Host_Housepoet hello  aceboo
12:07:15 Mod_ariana galadriel2006 that makes sense
12:07:18 Autumn_Mama I think my DD (she's almost 4) just thinks that the bottles have 'booby-milk' in them...we're not around alot of ABM-feeding Mamas.
12:07:39 Mod_ariana I just... I don't want to put down formula or bottles but I want them to understand that they are inferior
12:07:45 galadriel2006 yeah
12:07:49 Autumn_Mama Yep.
12:07:49 Host_Housepoet well that's a good thing to learn
12:07:50 downundermum a few of my boys have tryed other kids bottles and hated it
12:07:55 Autumn_Mama hehe
12:07:57 aceboo lol
12:08:04 galadriel2006 you don't want your kid going up to someone saying that's gross!""
12:08:06 Host_Housepoet my son picked up my friend's baby's paci last night
12:08:08 Host_Housepoet he didn't like it
12:08:12 Host_Housepoet hahaha
12:08:17 Host_Housepoet I don't know about that  galadriel2006
12:08:19 Host_Housepoet ;)
12:08:25 galadriel2006 hahaha
12:08:26 Host_Housepoet it IS gross
12:08:27 galadriel2006 you're bad
12:08:27 Host_Housepoet hehe
12:08:35 Host_Housepoet sorry, boob nazi coming out ;)
12:08:41 aceboo has anyone ever felt uncomfortable around other kids-who you know may be ignorant to breastfeeding?
12:08:41 galadriel2006 don't worry about it
12:08:49 downundermum lol my 4yo would do that
12:08:55 galadriel2006 depends on the age of the kid in question
12:09:08 galadriel2006 i breastfed alot around my younger siblings last time i was up there
12:09:12 aceboo like hmm..4-8?
12:09:23 Mod_ariana If I'm nursing in front of other kids I try to be respectful of the parents
12:09:25 galadriel2006 that age i would consider prime time for normative education
12:09:32 Mod_ariana the kids are rarely bothered by it
12:09:46 aceboo maybe their parents want you to stop, but you want to tell them that it is what all babies shoukd drink
12:09:54 downundermum i have never had a child care
12:10:10 downundermum lots of adults make coments but not kids
12:10:11 aceboo if they stare :?
12:10:16 Mod_ariana When I was babysitting my neices my older neice was about 8 and she liked to sit with me while I nursed my son
12:10:31 galadriel2006 i just give my best look of death to adults who have hang ups about breasts
12:10:43 Autumn_Mama haha
12:11:10 galadriel2006 my 6 year old sister wanted to know if it hurt for the baby to eat my boob""
12:11:16 aceboo lol
12:11:51 galadriel2006 i explained that it was mommy milk and that it's very good for little babies to have special milk straight from their  mommies
12:12:24 shadybrat hey everyone
12:12:31 aceboo ki
12:12:32 Mod_ariana shadybrat Hi!
12:12:34 Autumn_Mama Hi shady :)
12:12:37 shadybrat :-)
12:13:09 shadybrat how are you all doing?
12:13:14 Mod_ariana We're good.
12:13:29 Mod_ariana We're discussing NIP in front of other children
12:13:33 shadybrat awesome
12:13:40 shadybrat ah, gotcha
12:13:52 Mod_ariana I think when you're in front of other kids it's important to be very casual about it
12:13:56 aceboo does anyone else here ALWAYS  have other adults explaining why they couldn't bf, giving excuses--unasked?
12:13:57 Mod_ariana teach them that it's normal
12:13:58 galadriel2006 yeah
12:14:02 shadybrat it has been a loooonnng time since my 4yo NIP'd  ;-)
12:14:04 galadriel2006 yup!
12:14:19 Mod_ariana shadybrat I bet!
12:14:27 Mod_ariana My 2 1/2 year old hasn't NIPed in a long time
12:14:38 Host_Housepoet He doesn't?
12:14:40 Mod_ariana aceboo You know I haven't had that a lot
12:14:41 Host_Housepoet Aiden still wants to
12:14:49 downundermum my 2 1.2 NIP all the times
12:15:00 downundermum 2 1/2
12:15:17 Mod_ariana For James he gets so wrapped up in whatever else he's doing
12:15:32 aceboo i was getting a makeover and she talked the whole time about how she tried, it hurt, baby smart regardless, blah blah, blah
12:15:40 Mod_ariana though if it's something low key like if we're just hanging out at a friend/family's house then he will want to nurse for his nap
12:15:53 shadybrat of course, we're down to one sleepy nursing session every 7-10 days, so it is almost hard for me to remember the constant nursing of a couple of years ago
12:16:35 Mod_ariana James has reeeeaaaalllyy slowed down on his nursing
12:16:51 downundermum how old is he?
12:16:57 Mod_ariana he's 2 1/2
12:17:09 Mod_ariana He'll usually nurse 3 times a day or so
12:17:27 aceboo my dd-7mo, has started waking a LOT at night, she WAS sleeping through most of the night
12:17:37 downundermum oh ok my zac 2 1/2 wants to feed every time his siter does
12:17:38 galadriel2006 is it normal for a 10.5 month old to be down to nursing between 2 and 4 times a day?
12:17:58 downundermum siter=sister
12:18:02 Mod_ariana That seems low to me  galadriel2006 but each child is different
12:18:04 shadybrat how much food is he/she getting, galadrial?
12:18:19 aceboo i was trying to fig that out, i thought his babysitter was nursing, lol
12:18:33 shadybrat lol
12:18:48 galadriel2006 he is heavily into solids
12:18:48 Mod_ariana downundermum that makes sense if he has the reminder when his sister nurses
12:19:12 Mod_ariana galadriel2006 at that age my boys were nursing probably a dozen times a day
12:19:13 downundermum yes it does mod
12:19:14 shadybrat i would say that is a hindrance then... i think 2-4 times a day is on the low end, too
12:19:20 galadriel2006 wow
12:19:21 Mod_ariana but they've always been snacky nursers
12:19:29 Autumn_Mama Me too Ariana
12:19:34 galadriel2006 that's probably the difference
12:19:44 galadriel2006 he'll nurse for 30-45 minutes a shot
12:19:56 Mod_ariana each nursing session for my boys may have only been 5 - 10 minutes
12:20:24 kristenandmadeleine afternoon east coast ladies, morning west coast ladies!
12:20:32 Autumn_Mama Again, me too.except for when they were newborns.
12:20:33 Mod_ariana kristenandmadeleine Hello!
12:20:39 shadybrat and i had the long sessions 8-10 times a day.... they're all so different :-)
12:20:40 Autumn_Mama Good morning!
12:20:47 kristenandmadeleine hello ariana!  how are we all today?!
12:21:03 Mod_ariana I think everyone is pretty well today
12:21:11 Host_Housepoet